No matter who you are and what you stands for some people will definitely hate you.
Every normal person have some people who hate him. Haters come in two different kinds, the least dangerous ones who express their hatred directly and the more dangerous ones who express their hatred in more subtle ways.
In the beautiful journey called life, you will meet some people who will seem to make it less so or hard to live. You will often hear people talking about how you should hang around people who add something positive to your life. Well, a big part of actually accomplishing that is by identifying the bad apples: the ones who not only not add anything, but make things worse by dragging you down for every little mistake you make. These people are your haters and you will be much better off if you know how to tell if someone hates you. Here are 20 signs showned by people who hate you.
1.Lack of Compliment and Praise
This should be obvious. From time to time, when you have small or big victories in life, you will see people praising you and generally paying tribute to your hard work or achievements. But someone who hates you won't do that. They will probably say something demeaning like “You could have been better” or smirk uncaringly. They do this out of a sense of insecurity that the emotion of hate brings. They will generally stay away from saying anything positive about you and will focus on your shortcomings.
2.Blame Comes Easy
Well, to be fair to you hater, they have to do justice to all that negativity in their heart. He or she will find new and creative ways to manifest this hatred. One of them is by blaming you every chance they get. If you find yourself getting blamed by them frequently for things that are out of your control, you'll want to stay away from them. There is no point feeling hurt and helpless as this is a sure-fire sign of someone who thinks as little of you as to just trample upon your feelings without care.
3.Body Language
A hater will usually not face you directly while talking, make less eye contact with you, give false smiles and avoid touching you.
I'm sure you have heard of the phrase “actions speak louder than words”. Well, they do. It is a proven psychological fact that people who aren't comfortable around you will tend to avoid being engaged. This means that they will feel uncomfortable while facing you and talking to you. You should notice the “rift” between the two of you. They will also tend to lean away and thus avoiding eye contact. Ask a question, and they'll answer with a shrug or two. Reading between the lines is a big part of knowing how to tell if someone hates you
4.They will Try to Be Close to You
It is a common thing for someone to keep their friends close and their enemies closer. Knowing how to tell if someone hates you requires you to identify the fake for the real. Some haters will act as your best friend and biggest confidant all the while laughing to themselves inside.
Thankfully for you, this shows on their faces and in their actions. If you notice things that you only told that person floating around in public, it's not a coincidence. These people are the worst kind and should be cut out from your life mercilessly.
5.They Don't Listen to You
This is another good way of deciphering whether someone hates you. In conversation or when you give them advice, if the person doesn't listen to you, you should know there is something with your relationship. Your hater will look bored, disinterested and generally not pay attention to you when you talk to them.
It's like you don't matter to them at all. Remember that all relationships are two-sided. You can't be the one putting in all the efforts and expecting the other person to cooperate.
6.A Bad Attitude
It is generally acceptable if someone who is having a bad day snaps at you. They are probably just blowing off some steam, so don't think too much about that. But when it becomes a repeating trend, you should realize that there is definitely a problem. A bad attitude can turn the track of your day extremely quickly. You don't want to be around all that negativity because it is infectious. A toxic attitude like that spreads and will start affecting you, so you should be careful.
7.The Tone of Their Voice
Lastly, there is this. You can tell a person doesn't think much of you when he or she has a sarcastic tonality to their voice.
Knowing how to decipher someone's voice can go a long way into knowing how to tell if someone hates you. If you see them always patronizing and sarcastic often to the point of insensitivity, you should know that he or she isn't a person you want around you.
8.Trying to pick verbal or even physical fights
Haters can sometimes try to do anything to start a verbal or even physical fight. The ultimate goal of those haters is to make the person they hate feel bad.
9.Feeling content when someone makes fun of you
Friends can laugh at one another normally but haters will seem exceptionally content when the one they hate is being made fun of.
10.Differentiation in treatment
A hater will usually treat you very differently than the way he treats others. For example, you can ask for a favor and get turned down while another person can ask for the same favor and get a positive response.
11.They don't laugh at your jokes
A hater gets annoyed when the person he hates is around. In such a case, the hater will not feel like laughing if the one he hates said a joke.
12.They don't acknowledge your presence
Some haters do their best to ignore the ones they hate. They won't say hi or even try to avoid the ones they hate completely.
13.They constantly disagree with you
A hater will usually try to find a point of disagreement with the one he hates in order to release some of the hatred and frustration they have in their hearts.
14.Bad mouthing you
People use gossip to release the frustration they have against others. If a person bad mouths you in your absence then there is a big possibility that he is a hater.
15.Embarrassing you in public
Haters usually try to make the ones they hate look bad. If a person constantly tries to make you look bad by making fun of you in front of others or writing bad comments on social networks then he might be a hater.
16.Feeling bad when you succeed
If a hater sees you succeeding or heard that anything good happened to you he will become less energetic, seem sad and seem discontent.
17.Emotionally charged criticism
People can criticize others for various reasons, good or bad, but when someone hates another his criticism will usually be charged with negative emotions. In such a case, the person uses criticism as a method to release the frustration that results from hatred.
18. They Will want to know your news
A hater will always want to know about your progress in life just to make sure that you are still suffering. You might find him asking too many detailed questions about you just to get to know whether you are happy or not.
19. They Will display content when he finds you unhappy
While listening to your sad story the hater might touch his eyebrows (a body language sign that shows that a person is happy with what's going around) become more energetic or even smile.
20. They Will try to warn you when you attempt to succeed: some haters will try to act like friends who care about you. Those are the ones who will usually try to warn you when you attempt to succeed in life or do something that they didn't manage to do.
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