20 reasons why some people hate you without no reason

 Do people dislike or hate you for no reason?

Or are you wondering why some people hate you ?
Do you think that something is wrong with you?

You might think there must be something that is wrong with you. 
The good news is that nothing is wrong with you.

They just choose to hate you for no cause.

“If your number one goal is to make sure that everyone likes and approves of you, then you risk sacrificing your uniqueness, and, therefore, your excellence.” ~Unknown

Here are 20 reasons why some people hate you without no reason. 
1.Because they want to be like you.
People who want to be like you but can't, might hate you. While a psychologically stable person will try to become better, an unstable person will just hate anyone who is better than him.

2.Because they need to feel good about themselves.
So many people hate others to elevate their own self-esteem and feel better about themselves. People could be hating you because they have self-esteem issues and not because you are bad or defective.

3.Because they think you don’t deserve it.
They look at your fame, your popularity, your friends, your career, etc., and think that you are not worthy of these things, because they are only looking at things at surface level. They don’t care about the hard work you had put in behind the scenes — your sacrifices, your worries, your fears and the pains you’d gone through. Because they are superficial like that.

4.Because they can’t get over the past.
You two had a thing in the past. Perhaps you were close friends but unfortunately fell out. Perhaps you were lovers but things didn’t turn out as planned or expected. Perhaps there was no closure for whatever issue there was between the two of you. Whatever it is, this hater of yours is still bitter about the past. He/she still can’t get over it; he/she is unable to forgive, yet. Well maybe after some time that troubling affair had quietly slipped off his/her mind, but because of the grudge still buried deep inside, whenever he/she gets reminded of you, emotions can run wild all over again. And there go the nasty comments and passive aggressive posts, again.

5.Because you remind them of their failure. 
When people see your success and remember that they don't have any, they might hate you for it. Brave people will try to be successful as well, while others will hate you.

6.Because you are getting the attention they always wanted to get. 
People hate others when they harm them either directly or indirectly. By getting the attention people were looking for, you would be harming some of them indirectly, and as a result that group might hate you.

7. You took something they were after. 
A person might hate you because you took something that he always wanted to have. That thing can be a job, a promotion or even the heart of someone. Helplessness and envy are the main reasons for hatred in such a case.

8.Because they can’t get over you.
You were important to this person and you broke his/her heart. And even after all this time, the wounds never really heal completely, and perhaps, never will.

Maybe cognitive dissonance has a part to play in this as well. It is natural instinct to undermine the significance of the things we lose, so as to help us cope with loss and the grief that follows after.

Haters overcompensate this aspect — the deeper they loved, the stronger they hate. Haters are people who (still) care, but they do so far too much. Sometimes you could feel that they care more about you and the things you do than you care about yourself, and they care about what other people think of you more than you actually do.

9.Because they have nothing better to do in life.
And we should take pity on them, really. Because for them, besides surfing Tumblr five hours a day, stalking other people’s Facebook and Twitter pages, and posting hateful comments on blogs and YouTube videos, they really don’t have much else to spend their time and energy on. The lowest of them stoop to writing long hate mails. All these activities give them that momentary sense of purpose and achievement in life. Perhaps your haters don’t even really dislike you that much. They just like hating on other people. Hating has sort of become a lifestyle for them. We can only wish them the best.

10.You remind them of someone who hurt them. 
People can unconsciously recall other people who resemble you when they first meet you. If you unconsciously remind a person of someone who hurt him, he might hate you. The problem here is with the person's past not you.

11.To stay psychologically stable. 
When a person fails to explain why someone is better than him he might start to look for any flaws to put that person down in order to increase his self-esteem. A person can hate you because that's the only way for him to remain psychologically stable.

12.Because they are such self-righteous, moral high priests.
No matter, they will always think of themselves as the better person compared to you. They would use your past against you, judge and criticize you using their own morals and values, and dismiss any good that you do. They don’t feel the need for humility when talking to you because they believe that they will always be (more) right. But we all know that such beings do make the biggest hypocrites around.

13.Because they are jealous. 
Jealousy is one of the most common reasons behind hatred. A person who is jealous of you might hate you if the emotions go out of his control.

They curse and wish for your downfall because they want you to lose the things you have that they don’t. They see life as a zero-sum game.

They think, perhaps if you lose a couple of friends/fans, they could gain some themselves. And if they can’t have the things you have, they rather you not have them at all as well. They are basically pretty fucked-up human beings.

14.Because they are unhappy with some things in their own life.
And they try to make someone else unhappy too — by being the nuisance that they are. They want to pull you down to their level of unhappiness. They want you to be disturbed and not have peace. If they can’t enjoy their life, they make sure you can’t enjoy yours too.

15.To deny one of their flaws. 
A person can hate you to deny one of their flaws. By claiming that you have a certain flaw then avoiding you, that person would successfully deny the problem he already has. It's not uncommon for a person who has a certain flaw to hate others for it

16. They Feel You Will Look Down On Them. 
Some People are just so insecure that they believe you’ll look down on them because of what you have in life that they don’t. Their insecurity will make them withdraw from you and they could even hate you for this.

17.Because they think you are a threat. 
Sometimes a person might dislike you because he thinks that you are a threat. Cowards and weak people automatically dislike anybody who might threaten their position ( Steal their friends, get a share of the attention they are getting, get the job they are applying for and much more reasons.)

18.Because they don't feel safe around you.
People dislike the ones they don't feel safe around. Those who suffer from anxiety or those who are too afraid to mingle with new people might dislike strangers just because they don't feel safe around them. They prefer a small circle of friends that gives them the safety they need.

19.A Lot Of People Are Wired That Way 
A lot of people have hate in them; they have cultivated that negative energy from a very young age to adulthood, and they just tend to carry that hatred and bitterness everywhere they go.

20.Because they Mistake Your Happiness For Pride. 
You might be happy to reach a new height and someone else (who’s down the ladder) might mistake it for pride. And because of this, they’ll hate you.

. What you should do. 
In order not to be hurt by rejections you have to understand few facts about life. It's impossible to make everyone like you because of the various reasons described above and many others.

You should only stick to the people who truly love you instead of wasting your effort trying to win the approval of those who don't. In order not to feel lonely you need few close friends who really like you and not tens of friends who barely like you.

Finally no one is perfect. Yes you might have some flaws but in many cases people will dislike you because something is wrong with them and not with you.

To Your Happiness

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